For example, we don’t have to wear a suit to a dinner party. We don’t have to wear a tie to a wedding. We don’t have to be as pretty as a movie star for lunch. There’s always something else to do.
One of the most common excuses that people give for not being as beautiful as a movie star is that they’re not that beautiful. We don’t have to be this way but it doesn’t mean we can’t. For example, we dont have to be as tall as an NBA star to dunk the ball like a true star. We dont have to be as good looking as a pro athlete to play basketball.
One of the biggest excuses is that a person isn’t that attractive. This is one of the hardest things to admit, but its true. For example, you may be pretty but someone who is attractive will have to look at you twice, and you might not even know it until you see it. This is why the fashion industry is actually based on beauty standards. Its like asking your parents to be as beautiful as Beyonce or Jennifer Aniston, you just cant have the money.
The most important thing in life is self-care, and self-care can help you get through the material things you need to get through. A person who is not happy and not focused on self-care can be miserable, and you can do that by being active and taking care of yourself.
The first thing to do is to acknowledge your own standards and not let others tell you what you should or shouldn’t be. If you are getting a lot of unwanted attention, it’s probably because you are not being self-aware enough. Try to spend less time in front of the mirror and more time in front of the computer. Also, pay attention to what others around you are doing and if you don’t feel like doing it, don’t do it. Not everyone can be your boss.
You can do this by making a list of what you are doing that makes you feel unhappy and what you are doing that makes you feel happy. This will also help you identify other people who are doing the same thing.
Another thing is the idea of feeling self-conscious. You might think you dont feel self-conscious but this is a really big mistake. The problem is not that you are self-conscious, but that you dont know what self-conscious means. It’s like trying to describe the feeling of a cold, wet, and sticky room (which is not the same thing).
As it turns out, we all have a tendency to feel self-conscious when we don’t. It’s like we want to be in a movie, getting shot.