All of us have a few choices to make when making statements, particularly when it comes to the “what is.” Many of us have been taught that our statements are absolute and that there are no options or alternatives, but that is not true. Each of us has a choice of what we say and how we say it, but when we use the words the way that we want them to be, our words convey truth.
Even our own language is ambiguous in this regard. We have this amazing capacity to use language in a way that is far more than what we really mean and that is why it is so hard to pin down exactly what someone really means.
We don’t mean to be mean, but the way people use language is a reflection of us. It’s no different with our own actions, habits, and preferences. Even our own desires are ambiguous. We all have preferences about what we eat, what we do with our time, how we spend our money, and how we dress.
Saying that we really don’t mean to be mean is saying that we really don’t have any preferences at all. It’s a way of getting out of something you otherwise don’t even like to think about, but we do. It’s another way of saying we’re not being serious. That is, that we don’t have a preference, and that we aren’t being serious when we say that we don’t have a preference.
If you are going to make a statement, you should make it clear that you have a preference of it. If you dont, well, then you are not being serious. You are making a statement you know you are not being serious about. If you do have a preference, you should point it out. If you dont, then you are making a statement that you dont know you are making. You wouldnt like that, even if you were being serious.
Saying that we dont have a preference is like saying that you don’t like it when somebody eats pizza. It’s like saying you don’t like it when somebody says their dog died, or when somebody goes to town on people. It is making a statement you know you are not being serious about.
I have seen so many articles from other websites about the importance of having a clear statement before being serious about something. I have seen people say things like, “I have no preference, my friends have told me if I want to paint my house I should paint my house a certain way,” “I want to be a writer,” and “I don’t have any preferences, I just want to paint a certain way,” and of course, “my preferences are my preferences.
It is the same with statements like, I don’t like my body, I don’t like my voice, and I’m in a lot of pain. It is the same with statements like, I hate my job, I like being at home with my family, and I just want to go and have fun. It is the same with statements like, I don’t like my friends, I dont like people, I hate people, and I dont like being alone.
It is the same with statements like, I dont like to read, and I hate reading. It is the same with statements like, I hate to work, and I hate going to work. It is the same with statements like, I hate going to parties, I hate going out in public, and I hate going to parties. It is the same with statements like, I hate going to movies, and I hate going to the movies.