Signs of insecurity can be seen from our coworkers too. They are constantly trying to prove how they are better than the competition or making excuses for why they are never as successful as their peers. These negative behaviors can have you feeling like you are falling behind the game, so it is important to take some time to evaluate your coworkers.
Not that you should be doing this, but be sure to take a look at your coworkers for signs of insecurity, because it can be a subtle way for them to try to “take your mind off your work.” I know it can be hard to do when you are the only one on your team who is being insecure, but if you know your coworkers are insecure, you can try to get them to realize how much effort it takes to be successful.
There are a lot of “self-help” books out there that talk about how to handle conflicts and build up your confidence. Maybe you can make a list of all of the things that make you the most successful and get everyone on that list to make a list of all of the things that make you the least successful. You can also use a little something called “emotional intelligence” to figure out what your coworkers are insecure with.
It’s kind of like an interpersonal intelligence test, except instead of measuring your own performance, it’s measuring how other people are performing. They may seem like they’ve improved, but actually, that’s just a reflection of the self-confidence of the people around them. If you’re the one who’s most confident, don’t be offended if they ask for your help.
Self-confidence is what keeps people stuck in jobs and career paths that seem uninspiring. It is more than just being confident, it is the belief that you are more than what you have to be right.
It is easy to think that you are an expert when you think you have all of the answers. If you have a job or career that is so well-established that no one has even asked you what you do, and you think you can do a better job, then you are probably an expert. But this is a very fragile confidence, its easy to get bogged down in negative self-talk and believe you are not good enough.
In this trailer, you will find a lot of different ways to deal with the reality of your own self-confidence. These are the only ways to deal with the insecurity that you can.
At the moment, I feel like I’m living in a prison, but I’ve been in it for five years and I’ve started to see it all the time. I’ve learned to be more defensive when it comes to self-confidence.
I can imagine that there are different ways to deal with the insecurity you have. One of the ways is to not tell, to not show anything of yourself. The other is to get out of your own way and trust that you are right. You will also learn that there are no “right” ways to deal with your insecurity so you will have to learn to deal with it on your own.